Posts by: notyouraveragebro

First Dates on a Budget

Dear Becca, A couple days ago, a girl messaged me on okcupid, a site that I had been more or less ignoring for a while. The girl seemed cool though and we’ve since exchanged a few messages. In one of…

Facebook Etiquette

Dear Becca, So I was at a party the other night and met this girl. We talked for a while and parted ways at the end of the night. I awoke early the next morning to fetch a glass of…

Long Distance Lovers (Be Careful!)

Dear Becca, I’m in a long-distance relationship of sorts, and lately it’s been getting really difficult to maintain. Do you have any advice for people trying to make it work from very far away? From, Longing Laura Dear Longing Laura,…

Drunk Texting (just stop doing it)

Dear Becca,   ‘”What’s your best remedy for shaking someone of the horrible “overtexting” habit? In the early stages of relationships, I always find myself involuntarily contacting men via texts or messages- or DRUNK texts and messages. Every time, I try to “play…

Official NYAB Logo!

Hey all! Exciting news at NYAB this week.  My logo is finally complete, and looking snazzy as ever.  I’d like to thank my friend Adrienne for making me such a perfect logo.  Please feel free to contact her if you…

Dear Becca…

Hey all!  I’m starting a new addition to the site called “Dear Becca”.  Guys and gals can e-mail me (notyouraverageladybro@gmail.com) your dating questions, whether it’s for you, or a friend, or just in general.  I’ll post them, anonymously of course….

Great Expectations of Romance

Lately I’ve been thinking more about how us “Millennials” seem to differ from young people from past generations.  In my previous article, I discussed how technology is playing a major factor in how we approach dating, and is also a…

Post-College Dating for Millennials

Yesterday, a good friend of mine passed on an extremely thought provoking and honest article from the New York Times called “The End of Courtship” (http://www.nytimes.com/2013/01/13/fashion/the-end-of-courtship.html?pagewanted=1&_r=0&ref=general&src=me&adxnnlx=1358197281-jVnpD0hf7TPqIow7TTL9Kw)   While reading it, I couldn’t help but think, “YES! This is so dead…