Dear Becca…

What to Order on a Date

Dear Becca, I never know what is appropriate to order on a first date or first dinner date.  I am a huge foodie with a healthy appetite, but I am not sure if my date would be turned off if…

When Kissing Goes Bad

Dear Ladybro,   Had a great date, lots of chemistry, slight hand touching arm around her shoulder, you know all the signs that things are going well. Walk her to the cab, go in for the kiss……and well, horrible kissing…

Sex On the First Date?

Dear Becca, I feel these days we live in a society where kissing has become the new m/f handshake, we kind of take it for granted, nobody seems to enjoy just a nice make out session anymore and usually it…

The Girl Who is Constantly Rescheduling

Dear Becca, I had a date scheduled last week with a girl I’ve traded  a few messages with online, but she had to cancel due to work reasons. She asked if we could reschedule for a day this week, but…

How Long to Wait Before Asking Her Out

Dear Becca, So I met this girl, we chatted, I got her number, we text back and forth, and now I want to ask her out on a date. But how soon is too soon? I don’t want to come…

How to End a Casual Relationship

Dear Becca, After going on 4 dates with a guy, I noticed that I wasn’t feeling romantically interested in him, despite feeling like we had a great time together.  I debated for a while how I would let him know–phase…

Getting Him to Stop Drunk Texting You

Dear Becca, Your post “Drunk Texting (just stop doing it)” really caught my eye.  As an overly-excited, chatty girl, I have often had problems with texting too frequently and especially with drunk texting.  However, my question has to do with…